I was talking to the person I'm with about the proverbial "one".Not sure if I had written in the past that for me, "the one" is an expression only. A term to identify the best fit amongst the long list of candidates qualified to be with you. There isn't just one person you can be happy with. Most. That is the key word.
Anyways, that is another topic.
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What I was talking with the person I'm with was, what does "the one" mean to other people?
For me, the one is the person you love (or want) the most. Like the movies. Like references to "the one that got away".
Not whom you choose. It has nothing to do with choices. The heart wants what the heart wants.
I was somewhat surprised to realise that some people define it differently.
To them, "the one" is the person who chooses ( loves / want ) them the most.
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In a perfect world obviously, there is no point writing this entry because the one you choose is the person you love/want the most. And you, for him. Or her.
